This summer (and this year in general) has been a long health trend. More and more people are going to the gym to get in shape and look hot for beach days. But some people have other things in mind when at the gym, and I’m not too sure if it’s inappropriate or invited. Maybe it differs from person to person, you be the judge.
Guys, I’m pretty sure when a girl is hard at work on her bod, the last thing she wants is to be hollered at by a sleaze ball. Compliments are cool, but straight up making her feel uncomfortable is not. You both are at the gym for one thing: to get in shape. You’re not there to find someone to hook up with for the day. Go do that at a club, you might have more luck there.
To Holla or not to Holla, that is the question.
But what if you meet the most perfect girl, and you absolutely have to try and talk to her? Well, if you’re at the same gym, chances are she has a membership, and that you’ll see her again. If she’s lifting, offer to be her spotter. Or if you have a good knowledge of workouts and positioning, strike up conversation on her form. By form, I don’t mean her body, I mean her stance. Compliment her on her form, on her strength, or her endurance. It’ll probably get you further than just a blatant, “Damn girl, nice ass” or a creepy long stare session.
What do you think? Have you been hit on at the gym, or have you pursued someone yourself? Maybe it’s just a preference thing, and maybe people actually go to the gym looking for love. Who knows. One thing is for sure though; always be respectful and don’t be a douche nugget.
Classy always wins.